Do you feel alone in your relationship?
Do you feel frustrated and hurt when you try to communicate?
Are you ready to try something new to feel closer, more united, and understood by your partner?
I can help you:
- Communicate so that you feel heard, understood, and supported
- Deepen your connection and intimacy
- Navigate your differences while staying on the same team
- Heal relationship wounds from infidelity, betrayal, addiction, and loss
My name is Heather Varnau. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and I specialize in marriage and relationship counseling. I’m passionate about helping distressed couples reconnect and become their best selves with each other. My goal is to provide a safe, heartfelt, and scientifically-based therapeutic environment so individuals and couples can heal and transform their relationships.
I offer two of the most researched and effective forms of couples therapy available: Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, developed by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.
Serving individuals and couples from Skagit, Island, and San Juan counties, as well as clients traveling from Bellingham, Seattle, and beyond, I’m proud to specialize in a cutting-edge, highly effective therapy approach: Intensive Couples Therapy (also known as Marathon Marriage Counseling).
“Heather is a genuine and dedicated professional.
She is compassionate with clients and colleagues, and is always striving to be of help to others.
She is someone who is constantly learning and growing, being whole-hearted in her life and her work.”
Laura Gambrel, PhD, LMFT, LPC
Professor of Psychology and Marriage and Family Therapy—Appalachian State University
“Heather is genuinely caring, supportive, compassionate, and a very good listener.
She is very present with you, and knows what you need to work on.
We trust her and have always felt that she has our best interest in her heart and mind.”
“After working with Heather for only a few sessions, we gained valuable skills that
helped us get through a very difficult time in our relationship.
Our communication has never been better, and our commitment to one another is stronger than ever.
We are grateful for Heather’s mindful guidance and support, and highly recommend her services to
any couple who feel ready to take their relationship to the next level.”
“When I first met Heather, I was in crisis mode, and she immediately helped me through the most difficult time in my life.
I feel comfortable telling her anything.
I have gained the wisdom to not only love myself again but have the confidence to love someone else without reservation.
Heather saved my life, gave me hope, and a purpose again.”
“We came to Heather at a very difficult time in our marriage.
She provided us with a safe, neutral space to share our feelings and communicate on a level we never knew was possible.
We truly believe we would not have succeeded as a couple without her help.
Today we are closer and stronger than ever before.”
“Heather is a dynamite clinician.
She is that wonderful blend of very smart and deeply intuitive.
Heather exudes warmth and compassion while handling any situation put before her with grace, skill, and competence.
I refer to her frequently with the utmost confidence.”
Connie Feutz, MA, LMHC
Psychotherapist and Master Teacher for the Gottman Institute