You'll wish you'd done this sooner.

Powerfully effective relationship therapy for couples and individuals who long for a deeper, more intimate connection.

Certified EFT Couples Therapist and Gottman Method Couples Therapy in Bellingham, Washington.

Something has to change.

You struggle to communicate and feel frustrated by the same arguments that never get resolved.

Your trust has been damaged and you question whether you can try again. 

You long for a closer emotional or sexual connection and don’t know where to start.

You wonder, how can we change these patterns so that we both feel connected, fulfilled, and respected?

You’re not alone.

Lasting change takes the right intervention with the right guide.

female couple and individuals counselor in Bellingham, Washington

Hi, I'm Heather Varnau, Licensed Mental Health Counselor.

After 15 years of clinical experience with relationship therapy, the words I hear most often are, “We couldn’t have done this without you.” 

Combining the two gold standards of couples therapy, evidence-based EFT Couples Therapy and research-based Gottman Method Couples Therapy, I’ve helped hundreds of individuals and couples heal, reconnect , and find a positive path forward. 

If your relationship is suffering. I can help.


Marriage and Couples Therapy

Does your relationship feel like it’s falling apart? Are you stuck in vicious cycle? 

As a Certified EFT Couples Therapist trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, I’ll guide you to the root of what’s coming between you and your partner and give you the tools you need for lasting intimacy. 

Individual Therapy

Do you long for a happier, healthier life? Using mindfulness, attachment-focused, and IFS therapy methods, I can help you make the lasting changes needed to heal anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship problems through individual therapy.

therapist office in Bellingham WA, providing counseling services to couples and individuals

Clinical Supervision

*Coming Soon*

Take your therapeutic practice to the next level with my Clinical Supervisions. 

Client Gratitude

I can’t promise it’ll be easy, but I can promise that:

You Can

Safely explore the patterns in your relationship and gain clarity on how to make lasting change.

It's Possible

To work together to create a relationship that honors both of your feelings and needs.

You Will

Learn the essential tools needed to support a healthy, secure relationship well into the future.

Are you ready to build a bridge back to each other?

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