Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT)
At Inside Passage Relationship Counseling, we specialize in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, the most effective approach to couples counseling.
What Is Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy?
Developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy is an evidence-based, empirically validated approach to couples therapy. Considered the gold-standard of couples therapy for its high success rate, EFT is based on the neuroscience of adult attachment. Couples learn to address the negative patterns that underlie the majority of their conflict cycles, regardless of the exact content that is the focus of the conflict.
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy follows a well-researched map of 9 steps and 3 stages of therapy to help couples move from distress and insecure attachment to safe connection and secure attachment.
- 70-75% of couples move from distress to recovery
- Roughly 90% show significant improvement
- 16 outcome studies show changes in the brain's response to threat
“We were really in crisis mode when we found Inside Passage Relationship Counseling and they helped us get back on the same team. I don’t know that our marriage would have survived without their expert guidance.”
-Anonymous
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy Successfully Helps Couples Experiencing:
- Frequent Conflicts
- Poor Communication
- Emotional Distance
- Life Transitions
- Trust Issues
- Sexual Intimacy
- Betrayal and Infidelity
- Co-Parenting
- Non-Traditional Relationships
- Relationship Uncertainty
Lasting change requires the right intervention with the right guide.
Find a Trained Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist at Inside Passage Relationship Counseling
Choosing to seek therapy isn’t always easy, but finding the right therapist should be.
We are committed to creating a safe, non-judgmental space that welcomes all individuals, regardless of race, gender identity, religion, sexual orientation, political affiliation, or relationship structure.
Larke Blanton, M.Div, MA, LMFTA (WA), LMFT (NC)
Gottman Trained, EFT Couples Therapy Informed, Communication, Intimacy, Betrayal &...
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Merry Capozzolo, MS, LMHC
ASSISTANT CLINICAL DIRECTOR Certified EFT Couples Therapist, Certified EFT Individual...
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Colton Hoggarth, MS, LMHC
Advanced Training in EFT Couples Therapy, Gottman Method Trained, IFS...
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Gretchen Kandaras, MA, LMFT
Licensed in WA and CO. Gottman Method Trained, Certified PREPARE...
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Julia Mumford, MA, LMHC
Advanced Training in EFT Couples Therapy, Gottman Method Trained, EMDR...
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Todd Rubie, MA, LMFT
Anxiety, Depression, Men’s Work, Relationship Problems, Communication, Grief, Connection, Advanced...
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Sam Winter, PhD, LMFTA
EFT Couples Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Anxiety, Depression, Sexual...
Read More"We are so grateful to Inside Passage Counseling! We got more out of our sessions than we could ever have hoped."
-Anonymous
What to Expect in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy at Inside Passage Relationship Counseling
Inside Passage couples therapists are trained in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy to support your journey toward a happier, healthier relationship.
Assessment & Understanding
EFT begins by creating a safe environment to assess relationship dynamics and the emotions underlying conflicts. Your therapist will help you identify your primary emotions and attachment needs.
Identifying
Patterns
EFT explores negative interaction patterns and cycles that contribute to relationship distress. Patterns often involve a dance of emotions and responses between partners. Together you will learn a new, positive dance.
Accessing
Emotions
Therapists guide couples in recognizing and expressing their authentic emotions while also fostering the ability for deep listening and understanding. Emphasis is placed on identifying unmet needs and longings.
Reconstructing Interactions
EFT works to reshape negative patterns by fostering new, positive interactions. Inside Passage therapists help couples create secure bonds by learning to turn towards each other for comfort and connection.
Consolidation & Integration
The therapy process involves consolidating positive changes and integrating new ways of relating. Couples learn to maintain emotional and physical connection, and navigate challenges effectively.
Emotional
Engagement
EFT focuses on enhancing emotional engagement, creating a secure attachment, and strengthening the bond between partners, giving you the tools you need to nurture a long lasting, loving relationship.
Not sure where to start?
At Inside Passage Counseling, we make getting started easy.
1.
Schedule a FREE consultation with our Client Care Coordinators to help you find the right therapist.
2.
Set up a Personalized Therapy Plan where session are tailored to meet your needs and therapeutic goals.
3.
Start Feeling Better by gaining new skills, coping strategies and making lasting changes.
Connect with who matters.
If you are ready to improve the quality of your relationship, call Inside Passage Relationship Counseling today.
