Teen Therapy in Bellingham, WA

Helping Teens Find their Way Forward.

Specialized, trauma-informed counseling for adolescents ages 13–17.

Child psychologists and counselors now accepting new clients.

Therapy for Teens

Parenting a teenager is one of the hardest things you'll ever do.

You love them fiercely, and, on some days, you barely recognize them.

The child who used to talk to you has either gone quiet or become louder than ever, and everything you say lands wrong. You’re watching them struggle with something you can’t quite name, and every attempt to help just seems to push them even further away.

It’s not just hard. It’s lonely.

And underneath the eye rolls, the shutdown, the anger, or the anxiety, your teenager is trying to figure out who they are, where they belong, and whether they’re going to be okay.

The truth is, they probably need more support than you can give them alone. Not because you’re failing, but because some things are simply too big to work through inside the family walls.

We Help Teens with:

Our Approach

How Teen Therapy Works at
Inside Passage Counseling

Teens are not small adults, but they aren’t big children either. They occupy a space all of their own, and effective teen therapy meets them exactly where they are. 

At Inside Passage Counseling, we approach teen counseling as a genuine relationship. Our therapists don’t lecture, judge, or project. They listen. They ask good questions, and they create a space where your teenager can say the things they can’t say at home and gain tools for communication and emotional regulation. Little by little, your teen will start to understand themselves more clearly, and with that clarity, comes noticeable shifts.

Some Important Points to Keep in Mind

Your Teen is the Client

In Washington State, young people 13 and older have the right to direct their own mental health care. This means your teen is the primary client — their privacy and sense of agency in the room is protected. This isn’t a barrier to your involvement. It’s actually what makes therapy work for teenagers. When teens feel that the space is truly theirs, they open up. And when they open up, change becomes possible.

We keep you informed and involved in ways your teen agrees to and make suggestions when we feel family sessions would help. 

Drawing from modalities like CBT, Trauma-Focused CBT (TF-CBT), EMDR, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) skills, Emotionally Focused Family Therapy (EFFT), attachment-based therapy, and depending on your teenager’s needs, personality, and what they’re working through, sessions may include:

Your Role

For Parents

Stepping back doesn’t mean stepping out.

One of the hardest parts of parenting a teenager in therapy is trusting the process, especially when you can’t always know what’s being discussed in the room. We understand that. And we take your involvement seriously.

Here’s what parent involvement typically looks like in teen therapy at Inside Passage:

  • An initial parent consultation to understand your concerns, history, and goals
  • Regular check-ins on your teen’s progress, always in a way your teen has agreed to
  • Guidance on how to support your teenager between sessions
  • Family sessions when relationship repair or communication is part of the work
  • A direct line to your teen’s therapist when something urgent comes up

We are on your side. And we’re also on your teenager’s side. Those two things are not in conflict. They’re the whole point.

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This is one of the most common things parents tell us. A few things that help: frame it as their space, not a place where you send information about them. Let them know they’re in charge of what they talk about. Sometimes a single “just try it once” conversation with a therapist — with no pressure to continue — is enough to open the door. We’re happy to talk with you about how to have that conversation.

For individual therapy: Some of our providers are in-network with Premera and those providers bill Premera directly for individual counseling services. We are out of network with all other insurances. This means that payment is due at the time of service. We can provide superbills for you to submit to your insurance for possible reimbursement for any out-of-network mental health benefits you may have via your plan.

For couples and family therapy: This is a private pay service only. In couples and family counseling, we identify all members of the relationship jointly as our client. We do not identify an individual client with a mental health disorder diagnosis. This means that our couples and family counseling services are not considered to be “Medically Necessary” by insurance companies and are not covered by insurance.

For therapy intensives: IFS individual therapy intensives and EFT couples therapy intensives are private pay only and are not covered by insurance.

Our rates for 50-minute individual and couple’s therapy sessions range from $160-$215, depending on the provider. 80-minute sessions are available upon request and cost 1.5 times the 50-minute amount. Please inquire about rates for individual and couple’s therapy intensives.

In Washington State, teens 13 and older have confidentiality rights over their mental health care. There are important exceptions — if your teen is in danger, we will always inform you. Outside of safety concerns, we work with your teen to decide what to share and when, and we actively encourage teens to keep their parents in the loop in ways that feel safe to them.

Teen therapy is more conversational and insight-focused than the play-based approaches we use with younger children. Teens are working on identity, independence, and belonging. The therapeutic relationship itself becomes a place to practice those things. We also involve parents differently, balancing your teenager’s growing need for autonomy with your role as their caregiver.

Most teenagers benefit from 6–12 months of therapy, though this varies depending on what they’re working through. We set goals together at the start and check in regularly to make sure therapy is moving in a direction that makes sense.

Yes, fully and affirmingly. Our therapists provide identity-affirming care for teens exploring gender, sexuality, and all aspects of who they are, in a space that is completely nonjudgmental and safe.

If your teenager is experiencing a mental health crisis, please call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or take them to your nearest emergency room. We are not a crisis service but we do work with teens navigating suicidal ideation and self-harm in an ongoing therapy context, and we will always help you determine the right level of care.

Frequently Asked Questions About Teen Therapy

Change is Possible

Teenagers can — and do — change. With the right support, the shutdown opens. The anger softens. The anxiety quiets. The kid you know comes back.

If you’re ready to take the first step, we’re here.

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